Lesson of the day: You cant please everyone all the time and you shouldn't be!

I try to be nice to everyone. Except for the few over whom I take much rights, I never show my anger to people. I take people the way they are. This is how this person is. No point expecting them to be real nice. I do follow this. However there comes instances when trying to be too nice turns out only to be totally meaningless. It hurts. I can't be mr.perfect. Even if I could be, seems like there are some people who I can't please all the time. Now I ask myself? Why do I need to be too good? Always look what mistake I might have done rather than not thinking for a split second whether the other person could be wrong? Isn't it more important to see what is right rather than just analyzing whether I am right?

Am I a good person if I am good to everyone around me? Clearly, I am not! I will speak good, do good. But I need to do mostly for what is right. Irrespective of me or someone else. Mistake is a mistake, I do or someone else do. I can't be biased here. Forgiving other people is left to me. However I need to accept that people do mistakes and not just me. When someone is wrong I should say they are wrong, never mind who it is. Close to me, not close to me. Sensitive, non-sensitive. Soft, rough. None of my f'king business. Wrong is wrong, right is right, anytime anywhere anybody!!

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Never feed the devil

Ever heard the Macbeth story? A man so courageous. So skilled. What did he not have? He had fame, the trust of the very King of Scotland, and after all he had a good name. In no time he lost it all. What took it all from him? Who? Was it the witches that appeared in front of him? Was it his wife? Was it some devil that jumped right out of the sky? I don't think so. Ah, for that matter is there a place where there are no devils? How about our very self? That corner of the brain itching for something all round the clock.

How about a fag now?
Why not a couple of glasses more?
Oh, this weeds smells like the grass from heaven, yeah why not load the shit up?
Come on, you want to look there, I know, do it!
Oh dear, why not send a message now?
Oh her voice, sweet honey, ain't it?
Ah she is there, right there, take a peak you prick!
This is really against nature? Oh man, a natural calamity wont happen in one act of yours. Go ahead.
Ah, butterflies! Told you about butterflies!
What's this neurotransmitter called as? Doesn't matter. It does feel good. That's all I know.
You are acting like a moron, take the offer. Get a bit closer. Taste the thing man.

Does the list ever end? How long are we gonna say, the f'ker of a devil took me into it? No, devil's 'IN' us. Taking over. Ruling over. Eating every cell up. Day by day. Don't feed the devil. Even if it promises the world for that matter. not just Scotland!

I'm pretty damn sure we are never gonna be some Saints or turn into angels. What we were born as is what we are. Humans. Why feed the devil and downgrade our 'soul'ware version? :)

This is the question on my mind now. Thought i'd make you guys ask yourself as well ;)

Friendship wont sink. Its stronger than bloody Icebergs.

My friends never stop to amaze me. Not that they are some characters. But coz at times they show their care in ways I can't even see! Just like I try sometimes ;)

The best part is, my close friends know my negatives. They constantly give a shot to let me come over them. Find ways how I can improve myself. They never stop doing it! Just like my mum who never gets tired of complaining something wrong in me! Some of my friends handle those areas pretty softly. They say, "Buddy, I think its best not to do that". Some give out sarcastic comments, "You're gonna love it athiq. Can't help". Some get as harsh as they could, "Why the f'k you do that. When would you stop being a bitch?"

However they deliver it, the intention is clear as crystal. Its pure care. Some people even get angry on me. Say to others about me not doing the right thing. This is even cleverer. That "other person" knows how to get the message across in a better way or its just amplifying the advice. Nevertheless, when they find me a better person in time, they just love me even more. That said they never stopped loving me even when I was a prick doing shit things. They never gave up on me. Some believed I would listen. Some just waited for me to learn things on my own. So here I am, still making new mistakes; having the lessons well learnt from past ones; thanking my beloved friends for making me a better man everyday.

There is a saying:
"Kakkaiku than kunju pon kunju"
For every mom her son is the best, so was I for my mum.
Now what about the friends I got. Dont know when i was born in their hearts. They do protect me all the time. Not one friend who missed to say, "dear, don't get near that. Its gonna hurt", when they found me getting towards dangerous areas. Not one friend who said, "know what, I am busy with something. Don't mess me up with your whinings now". No! They had the time for me. They always did. God! Do one thing for me please. Bless them. Make them smile all day. If at all they had to face tough times, let that be a stepping stone to a better time.

God, I love'em all :D